WILLPOWER AND MANIFESTATION: Understand these pointers to ace the game of assumptions and bend your reality
Disclaimer: This post is meant only for those who want to or intend to bend their respective realities without being sucked into victimhood. There is absolutely nothing you can do to change your reality if you choose to be a victim because the Law clearly states CIRCUMSTANCES DO NOT MATTER. If you can stick to this idea, only then proceed otherwise you can skip this write-up because I, as a coach, will not answer your questions post your analysis of this piece if they happen to come from a place of hopelessness. I will not be subject to it because my work is to guide not to entertain a pity-party.
What is willpower? In layman’s language, it simple means determination and the drive to get to a certain destination. Most people confuse will-power with adamance or stubbornness, but here’s the catch. Consistency does not mean forcing anything. It means doing something everyday with discipline. That would also indicate even if you give a 40 percent at something, you still will give a 100 percent of the 40.
If you read through Neville Goddard’s works or Abraham Hicks’ teachings, you will notice there is a certain emphasis laid on PERSISTENCE. When you persist in something, you keep doing it everyday until the goal is achieved. Those who are motivated by the end goal and not the journey will constantly check how far they have reached. It is just like someone who wants to lose weight so they go and check the weighing scale everyday and keep sulking when they see no major changes. But only the smart or the wise keep their exercises and diet going accordingly and when they check the scale maybe after weeks, they see significant results, leading to more motivation and enthusiasm for further developments.
The tricky thing about willpower is you do not know how to differentiate between ego and the same. Some people get confused between the two. Please know that ‘manifestation’ cannot happen unless you make the desire come from a place of love. So, to break it down – it is not the person you want to manifest, it is the feeling you shall experience when this person is yours; it is not the job that you want, it is the feeling you shall experience when you show up everyday doing something you truly and sincerely love; it is not the success you want to manifest, you want whatever will happen after you have reached a certain stage wherein people can label you as “successful”, etc.
To clarify what MANIFESTATION means, it is the process of your thoughts becoming things or rather your inner frequency leading you to experience your desire on a physical plane of existence. Your thoughts are not MANIFESTATIONS yet, they will be manifested once you apply the Law to your benefit. Or else, you will manifest stuff, only not in your favour. In other words, you will manifest love but not the kind of love you want – something like someone may give you the exact kind of love you want but they may come with a few peculiarities you cannot ignore. This is another reason why people may win the lottery but may not be able to sustain it because they lack the discipline to be able to keep the desire. You cannot manifest something if you don’t have it within you.
Like attracts like – or, you attract what you are.
This is where willpower becomes important. Most of you are doing it the wrong way. You are immensely caught up with the end result which is why you forget to do your inner work. Your inner work is mandatory, no matter what these coaches keep shouting about (Only assume and think and visualise plus affirm, yada yada) you must understand your own thought patterns first and reflect on how you start thinking once something untoward happens in your 3D. Unless you can identify your own patterns, you won’t know what to correct, how to correct and where to begin from. You have to be committed to break your own toxic cycles of thinking about something – for instance, if you are someone who has a tendency to think of the worst case scenarios, your job now is not to assume or affirm or do ten thousand techniques to MANIFEST, instead, your only job at the moment is to ensure your nervous system finds a way to relax before your begin doing all the steps to get to the goal. Your state manifests, not your techniques. No matter how many techniques you do, if your state is shaky, you won’t see anything materialise in your physical reality. Even if you do, you’ll end up losing everything at a go.
You have the chance of bending your reality when you are sure of what you want SPECIFICALLY. Most people are not specific with their desires. They will say things like A LOT OF MONEY, LOVE, SUCCESS… these are ambiguous terms. You have to be able to define them first. This is the same reason why you need a coach or a guide to help you understand what is it exactly you are looking for. YouTube videos and all kinds of content online might help you to a certain extent but coaches specifically help you understand your desires well and through frequent interactions and exercises, they are much equipped to help you. Online videos are generic. No two people are the same. To add to this, not every coach is for everyone. Choose the kind of coach who best suits you.
Willpower also makes you a little more resilient as far as your desires are concerned. When you have enough of it, you won’t feel exhausted, or the journey won’t look tiresome. Because if you are feeling tired doing something that will take you to your destination, you just don’t have enough love for it. And, as I have mentioned earlier, manifestation is rooted in love. Try not mixing it with ego.
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