MANIFESTATION SUCCESS STORIES: Law of Attraction, Epiphanies and Reality Shifts- Part 1
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Not very long along, a friend of mine from school, Tanaya Amar, introduced me to the teachings of Neville Goddard, specifically the idea of everyone is you pushed out (EIYPO from here on) as a part of what she herself was a practitioner in. Now, I had earlier tried the scripting method, the whole idea of positive thinking and the like, but I was not successful in the same. When she told me to look into the precious ABUNDANCE we find around ourselves, I had my doubts because I hadn’t known anyone in my proximity who believed in the Law of Attraction, etc. I must remind you that I had a middle class upbringing in India, grew up with a fear- based mindset regarding money, relationships, work and everything you can think of. In addition to this, a lot of my family’s choices and way of life depended on religious inclinations. So, every single act from my end was subconsciously accompanied by doubt, an enormous amount of social conditioning and a stark notion about good and bad. I do believe in God, let me just clarify. Moreover, my belief in the Almighty helped me to achieve everything I wished for by using the manifestation techniques.
Note the words I highlight in this write- up because those have been instrumental in this journey. Miss Amar, in our initial conversations about EIYPO spoke about watching the vocabulary that we use in our daily lives, and this is significant if you are trying to manifest your desires, even the toughest ones.
I have been able to manifest a lot in the past month, shifted my reality, turned the impossible to possible in a few seconds time. Consider these — BETTER HAIR, DESIRED BODY TYPE, EYE COLOR, HEIGHT, SUPPORT FROM FAMILY, CAREER, MONEY, LOVE, PROFITS, FOOD, TRAVEL, SAFETY and TIME when I speak of manifesting EVERYTHING I CAN THINK OF.
Caution: Mute the people who speak the opposite of what you believe in. Do not be superstitious or limit your beliefs. Take a deep breath when you find negative thoughts accumulating, do not panic. Let go.
- MANIFESTING A SPECIFIC PERSON (SP) AND GETTING DESIRED BEHAVIOR
I had been seeing this guy for quite some time and developed strong feelings for him in a short period of time. When I first met him and during the first few dates, I noticed that he was self- obsessed, arrogant and argumentative. I had never heard of EIYPO so I had to bow down to what he said or argued because I am a peace loving person. I had cried my heart out when we fought and spent days praying for his change of behavior. The attention he got from women at his workplace and the gym bothered me so much that I had resorted to YouTube channel surfing on HOW TO GET THE MAN, etc., wasted time watching zodiac/ tarot channels/ horoscope predictions, read articles online about cracking the code to a man’s heart, so on and so forth. I must admit that in my early adulthood, I had the worst experiences with men from being cheated on to upsetting physical encounters in public spaces. I had harbored the belief that if I do not act like my SP wanted, I would lose him too. When Miss Amar introduced me to Goddard’s philosophy, the game changed and with effective results. I felt completely powerful, able and secure. Within a couple of weeks’ time, I made my SP express his love for me (I am very sure he would’ve never done that had I been my old self with doubts and limiting beliefs), made him utter the exact words on every meeting, take me out on multiple dates (breakfast, lunch, dinner), made him join a place of work (in my earlier reality, he was too egoistic to listen to a suggestion even), erased his arrogance and REMOVED THIRD PARTY.
THIS IS HOW I DID IT:
I realized I had been putting him up on a pedestal, not considering him as my EQUAL, A PARTNER OR A LOVER. In my reality, he was an attention- seeking, proud and an ostentatious player who could get any woman he wanted. To add to my woes, several people fueled the idea of his disinterest in me because I am ‘not the type he would date’. I shut them up in my alternate reality and in my current reality they changed their opinions too. How exactly?One day, I sat quietly in front of them while they spoke of how my SP is going to break my heart, hurt and cheat me. I was CALM throughout the conversations and didn’t think of them after they had gone. I reiterated the words, “THIS IS NOT MY REALITY.” That very evening, my SP took me out for dinner. The previous evening I had imagined that we were eating together and dreamed about it as well.
Note: Pay attention to your dreams. If your dreams contain your desired reality, you are CLOSE TO MANIFESTATION. WAKE UP AND JUST REMIND YOURSELF THAT IT’S DONE. ALWAYS LIVE IN THE END, WHICH MEANS ACT LIKE YOU HAVE ALREADY EXPERIENCED IT AND FEEL THAT SATISFACTION OF AN ACCOMPLISHED DESIRE. Epiphanies ONLY HAPPEN you aren’t trying too hard.
I had a talk with Miss Amar about the people who had been ‘provoking’ me against my SP. Since her emphasis was on EIYPO, she explained that a version of an individual has everything to do with how we manifest that particular version of them. At some point, I must have manifested ENERGIES that were causative factors of disagreements or break-up like situations between my SP and me, she explained. Later that week, I manifested DESIRED versions of the same people who were NOW telling me how ‘good’ my SP is! Isn’t that wonderful?
Let’s come to my SP’s behavior now. I noticed how I treated and chased him, keeping a tab on his activities and noticing his phone calls. The rule is, IF YOU CHASE SOMETHING, IT WILL RUN AWAY FROM YOU. I had a doubt that he might have shifted his interest to another female, which made me stalk his Instagram profile like a maniac! It took some self- control to refrain from the checking. Whenever I found a new female on his following list, I panicked and my thoughts went all over the place, causing me anxiety and panic attacks in the middle of the night. I STOPPED CHECKING HIS INSTAGRAM FOLLOWING list. I told myself, “HE LIKES NOBODY. THERE IS NOBODY WHO CAN CATCH HIS ATTENTION LIKE I DO.” Some days later, he confessed, “I LIKE GIRLS LIKE YOU, AND YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN MY TYPE.” To add to my happiness, he even said, “I DON’T LIKE SPENDING TIME WITH MY OTHER FRIENDS AS MUCH AS I LIKE PASSING MY DAY WITH YOU.” I had even imagined him putting me as a priority. Much to my surprise, he visited me on Valentine’s Day and we had dinner, despite his ill health. In my earlier reality, he would have chosen SLEEP over a DATE WITH ME. Never again, I went back to thinking he is IGNORING ME, when my calls were unanswered.
Coming to parallel reality, I reiterate these words, “I AM THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL HE HAS EVER MET” before any meeting with him. This has led him to whisper sweet nothings in my ear every time we hug before we part for the day. One morning I manifested a version of him saying, “We will go for coffee someday.” That very evening, he said the exact words in a random conversation and I had to control my laughter for almost half an hour! Whenever I find him doing something that I might not approve of, I VISUALIZE the opposite, the desired version of him. I could CHANGE him from a SHOPAHOLIC person to a MINDFUL shopper in just two days of constant affirmations in my head!
I had the most terrible incidences of disagreements with him in the first couple of months. He had gone on to the extent of telling me, “I REALLY DON’T CARE IF WE PART WAYS.” I was hurt and extremely upset for the next couple of months. When I re- read about EIYPO, I came to the conclusion that subconsciously I had manifested him saying that we can’t work it out. Apart from the fact that we belong to a completely different school of thought (in my earlier reality), we also have different choices. I SHIFTED MY REALITY by SELF TALK before sleep. I focused on the words, “HE IS ME.”, “HE IS AS I AM.”Miraculously, his choices have now become similar to mine, including our favorite festivals, food, coffee type and travel venues!
I used to have a complaint about his reserved attitude in my presence. When we met for a few coffee dates, he told me his childhood stories and emphasized that HE HAD NEVER BEEN AN ATTENTION SEEKING MALE IN THE COMPANY OF WOMEN. I believed him instead of going back to the assumptions I had earlier planted in my mind. A few days later, he told me how a girl had been troubling him and he had to block her due to her antics. I should point out that in our initial days of knowing each other, I had seen him speaking to a lot of women on various social media platforms. To see him BLOCK a female came as a first in my knowledge in THIS CURRENT REALITY THAT I HAD MANIFESTED.
SELF TALK has helped me a lot in achieving the desired version of my SP. thus, we now wear color co- ordinated clothes without informing each other (kind of unplanned twinning in the style department!), uttering the same words during moments of shock, joy, anger, etc., ordering the same food without prior prompting and waking up to a TYPING form of message as soon as our eyes open, first thing in the morning. I can assure it is because of the constant re- iteration that HE IS AS I AM.
This makes me come to the point of my failed relationships. Subconsciously, I had manifested versions of people I loved that were products of my self- doubts, self- pity, under confident personality and lack of self- love. I now understand that if I cannot feel confident in my own skin and the way I am, I cannot be the CREATOR OF MY OWN REALITY. My past was exactly the way I had manifested during that moment, focusing only on the negative aspects, thinking that I am NOT LOVED, NOT ENOUGH, NOT BEAUTIFUL, NOT WORTHY, etc. Since EIYPO, I emitted that energy on to my relationships, which is why they viewed me the way I was radiating a version I believed in firmly. I had drowned myself in the belief that no one would love me for the way I am.
SHIFTING REALITIES IN THE CASE OF YOUR SP is a lot easier when you IGNORE THE CIRCUMSTANCES. There was a heated argument between my SP and me where he said some real nasty stuffs, I had almost lost hope after that incident. Now that I believe in EIYPO, he admitted one day that HE DOES NOT REMEMBER ANY FIGHT WE EVER HAD!Mind you, he REMEMBERS EVERY SMALL DETAIL, just like I had manifested a trait in him. Magically though, he does not remember the fights! When I stopped focusing on the circumstances, I inferred that positive gives way to more positives because then YOU ARE NOT FOCUSING ON THE LACK, YOU ARE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT IS ALREADY THERE. That in itself is a tremendous force to shift your current reality to a desired reality.
To conclude, I shall say that I am thankful to God for making my will power stronger. I had manifested a solution perhaps, about the problems between my SP and myself, which is why I could reach out to Miss Amar and some major alterations happened in the subsequent weeks.
EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE. YOU ONLY HAVE TO LET GO AND TRUST THE UNIVERSE. MANIFESTATION IS EASIER THAN YOU THINK. YOU CAN GET ANYONE YOU WANT, CHANGE THE WAY THEY VIEW YOU AND GET EVERYTHING YOU WANT.
Pro Tip: VISUALIZE WITH YOU EXPERIENCING THE FEELING. To make it simpler, imagine you are with your SP and how it would feel like to be with him/ her and getting close physically or emotionally.
HAPPY MANIFESTING!
Stay tuned for the next part of my manifested reality on MONEY. Thanks.
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https://anchor.fm/anjashi-sarkar/episodes/GET-YOUR-SPECIFIC-PERSON-BACK-ef1q10
